Selected essays on classmates’ feelings Part I: Friendship of classmates
My wife often says that I can’t achieve great things. One of the reasons is that I’m not “good”. I will have a “reflection” when my face is red.
Man’s life is indeed limited, but what he has seen and seen in this life is relatively infinite. If life is spread evenly on every avenue, path and gully, people’s life will really be fragmented. This truth is so simple, but what I often can’t get rid of is the network of feelings. I once told people that the past can’t be found again. If you think the past is so beautiful, it is because the years have perfected it. If you insist on paying attention to that beauty, maybe the beauty is no longer beautiful.
I don’t know when, those colleagues older than me gathered together with great interest and emotion with classmates who had been away for several years or more. They gathered together for dinner, taking photos and talking freely, which made me feel a lot, and even my blood speeded up. Yes, it is rare for people to live together several times in this life, especially in adolescence, when people were young and didn’t know how to care about their thoughts. When we live far apart and taste the complexity of the world, we feel nostalgic about our life as students.
In recent years, there have been more people having parties. Middle school, college … and comrades-in-arms parties. Everyone gets together and recalls the exciting collective life in the school days. It is often said that youth is gone forever. But the party finally revived people’s gradually numb feelings. Most of these people have families and children; With busy work and often troublesome communication. The commercialization trend of interpersonal relationships makes people often lament the innocence of the past.
People live in an invisible net, which is recognized by many adults. After several years of separation, dozens of students in a class live far apart, and some have considerable power. When you ask the other person to do something, as long as he is your classmate, the chances of success are more. This is actually a net, but this investment is an emotional investment, but it has already been paid at school.
Think of my dozens of classmates, most of whom live in the county, but I am in the city, but I have no right to be incompetent. It is said that none of them is an official. I often regret this, otherwise I might have used some. So far, I haven’t got any news that we guys “get together”. I am really a bad person, as my wife said. I often dream that when my classmate clear voice was on campus decades ago, although he was unhappy, no one would blame anyone again, but he only read about the situation, the scene, the truth and the simplicity …
I have already sprouted the idea of convening everyone, which is really a time-consuming job, and I have been slow to make up my mind. I suddenly realized my inferiority. If there were many officials among my classmates, maybe I would have been a hundred times more enthusiastic. Yes, everyone must be very busy, happy or worried about family and work, but everyone will never forget the young time we once had together. When we lament the poverty of today’s emotional life, why can’t we really look back on the past?